Everyone wants to be happy.The hard part is choosing the path.
DecideBefore is a small reflection space. It doesn't tell you what to do. It helps you notice how your inner world has been feeling lately, and how heavy or gentle a decision might be on that inner world, before you act.
Different people want different kinds of happiness. Some value stability and family, others adventure or growth. DecideBefore simply tries to align your choices with your values and emotional state, instead of pushing you into someone else's idea of a "good life".
1 · Check in with your inner weather
You describe how you've been feeling: stress, impulse, closeness to people, family harmony, and the mood of your inner "tree" (blossoms, thorns, heavy, or neutral). This can be quick and honest – not perfect.
2 · Let the system notice patterns
Over time, DecideBefore gently smooths out the ups and downs of your check-ins and looks for patterns: is stress slowly rising or easing, are you more reactive, are relationships feeling safer or tense? It turns many days into a clearer baseline.
3 · View decisions through that inner baseline
When you're facing a bigger choice, you write your options in your own words. DecideBefore estimates how fast, heavy, or reversible each path might feel, and compares that with your recent emotional pattern. It highlights which options seem gentler or harsher on you right now.
Free vs Pro — same philosophy, different depth
Both tiers follow the same principle: you remain the decision-maker, the tool is just a mirror. The difference is how much history and help you get.
Free tier · light reflection
For quick check-ins when you want to sense where you are today.
- Simple sliders for stress, mood, and life areas – nothing is stored online.
- Visual "inner garden" that reacts to how you feel right now.
- Gentle, one-page reflections to nudge awareness without tracking you.
Free tier is like a notebook scribble: private to your device, useful in the moment, and low-pressure.
Pro tier · deeper patterns & decisions
For people who want to understand how their emotional patterns and big decisions interact over time.
- Saves your check-ins for a short period and smooths out the noise to find your true baseline (not just one bad day).
- Shows an inner compass: whether you're in a steadier, mixed, or sensitive phase emotionally.
- When you list options for a bigger decision, Pro estimates how fast, heavy, and reversible each path feels on your current system.
- Gives a simple "fit score" and a gentle written explanation of why some paths may be kinder or harsher for you right now.
Pro doesn't tell you what to do. It simply makes your invisible patterns and the emotional cost of each option easier to see, so your final choice can be more conscious.
Safety, boundaries & what this is not
DecideBefore is a reflection tool, not a replacement for therapy, counselling, medical care, or professional legal/financial advice. It doesn't diagnose, and it doesn't make decisions for you. It helps you pause, look at how you've really been doing, and then move forward in a way that feels more honest to your inner life.
If you're in crisis or facing serious harm, please reach out to real people and local support services. Tools like this can be a gentle companion, but they cannot replace human care.
You can explore the free tools first and only move to Pro if you feel the deeper pattern view is genuinely helpful for you.